Mothers: You Are Not Alone

June 4, 2025
By: Jacki C. King

Hospital Birth or Home Birth?
Doctor or Doula?
Epidural or Natural?
Breastmilk or Formula?
Cloth or Disposable Diapers?
Homeschool, Public, or Private School?
Stay-at-Home or Go Back to Work? 

That moment when those double lines appear on the pregnancy test can be both exhilarating and overwhelming. Suddenly, you’re thrust into a whirlwind of choices, decisions, and that all-too-familiar feeling of Am I doing this right? 

Motherhood is a beautiful journey that bonds us together in its messy glory, yet it can also be a source of division. In our diverse approaches to parenting, we sometimes find ourselves pitted against each other rather than standing together in support. So, let’s reshape the narrative, shifting our mindset from “against” to “for,” and from “at” to “with.” 

Celebrate Instead of Compete

How we approach our thoughts about ourselves, and other moms can significantly impact our relationships. Walking into a room full of moms with the expectation that they’ll validate or affirm us sets us up for a comparison trap. We’ve all felt that familiar twinge of insecurity when we perceive someone else as “having it all together.” But what if we shifted our mindset to focus on celebrating and encouraging each other instead? 

When I choose to enter a space with the intention of learning from others, hearing their stories, and cheering them on in their respective journeys, I lay down my defensiveness and insecurities. The result? Authentic connections bloom, and we create a community where we can truly thrive together. Each mom brings a unique perspective to the table, and when we embrace this diversity, we foster a supportive environment where everyone can flourish. 

Be a Learner

The saying “iron sharpens iron” holds true, especially in the realm of motherhood. I’ve learned so much from the experiences and wisdom of other moms. From teething remedies that no pediatrician ever prescribed to navigating new seasons of teen driving and launching them into college, the insights from fellow mothers are invaluable. And let’s not forget those organizational wizards who make meal prep and scheduling look effortless—seriously, how do they do it? 

Each of us possesses knowledge and skills that can benefit one another. By fostering a spirit of curiosity and openness, we not only enrich our own parenting journeys but also empower those around us. Let’s embrace the idea that we are all in this together, constantly learning and growing side by side. 

Empower With Your Words

Words hold immense power, and the way we use them can uplift or diminish those around us. In my conversations with fellow moms, I’ve noticed that many resonate with either “words of affirmation” or “quality time.” This realization has transformed how I view my interactions. 

In a world where polarizing language seems to permeate our discussions, I find joy in redefining the conversation. Simple, affirming phrases like “You are doing a fantastic job balancing work and home,” or “Your patience in that situation was inspiring,” can have a profound impact. When we take the time to sit with another mom, let’s do so undistracted, fully present in the moment. 

Research shows that for every negative experience, we need five positive ones to counteract it. Therefore, let’s make it a priority to identify and affirm specific traits in other women that we admire. This simple act of encouragement can foster a culture of support, reminding us all that we are not alone in our struggles. 

Point Each Other to Prayer

Amid our parenting journeys, it’s vital to remember that we don’t have to navigate this path alone. One of the most powerful gifts we can offer one another is the gift of prayer. When we gather with fellow moms, let’s not shy away from inviting God into our conversations and our struggles. Praying together allows us to lean on His strength and wisdom, reminding us that our hope is anchored in Him. 

Let’s also remind each other of the importance of trusting in God’s plan, especially when we feel overwhelmed by the weight of our choices. There will be moments when we question our decisions or feel unsure of the path ahead. In those times, it’s crucial to uplift one another by pointing to God’s promises. We can share Scriptures that encourage faith and hope, reminding each other that He is with us every step of the way. By cultivating this reliance on prayer and trust in God, we strengthen our bond and build a community rooted in faith. 

Be a Cheerleader for Each Other

In a world that can often feel competitive, let’s commit to being women who cheer one another on. Let’s celebrate the unique paths we each walk and the diverse strengths we possess. This is not just for our benefit, but for the sake of the next generation we are raising. They need to witness the beauty of sisterhood, support, and encouragement in action. 

Ultimately, we are all better together than we are apart. Let’s create a culture where we lift each other up rather than tear each other down, where we foster relationships rooted in love and understanding. By embracing this mindset, we cultivate an environment where both we and our children can thrive. 

As we navigate the complexities of motherhood, let’s remember that we are not alone. The journey may be messy, filled with choices and uncertainties, but together, we can face it all with grace, humor, and unwavering support. Here’s to celebrating each other and creating a vibrant community of moms who champion one another through every twist and turn of this incredible adventure called motherhood. 

Jacki C. King

Jacki C. King is a respected and beloved Bible teacher, author, and dedicated ministry leader. Her passion involves guiding women toward a deep love for Jesus and His Word and encouraging them to embrace their mission in their homes, workplaces, and communities. 

She is the author of The Calling of Eve: How Women of the Bible Inspire the Women of the Church (Tyndale 2022). A proud native Texan, Jacki serves alongside her husband Josh, who serves as Lead Pastor of their local church, along with their three boys. She holds a bachelor’s degree in Biblical Studies and Ministry to Women from Criswell College and a Master of Arts in Theological Studies from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. 

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